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In the F.R.I.E.N.D.S when Phoebe was getting married, why wasn't Frank and birth mom invited given the fact she was very particular about her family?
I know the reason for stepdad not showing up and Ursula too but Frank and even her birth mom wasn't there.
The absence of her mother is possibly remarked upon during the rehearsal dinner:
there is a brief mention of Phoebe's mother at the rehearsal dinner, and Phoebe is about to explain why she isn't there, but Monica keeps rushing her through her speech. (Although it's not entirely clear whether she means her birth mother or her adoptive mother.) Not sure if this was one of the deleted scenes that wasn't in the original airing.
(Note that IRL Teri Garr had been diagnosed with MS in the years before this episode, so that might explain why she wasn't in the episode.)
The most likely explanation is however that the Friends writers were awful at continuity and forgot about plenty of close family members of the characters for years (e.g. Ross's son etc.).
Would it be possible that they weren't there because of the snowstorm?
Phoebe had to change most of her wedding plans due to the storm and only those who lived nearby came to the ceremony.
As we see in The One Where Ross is Fine, Frank Junior and Alice struggle with caring for their triplets.
They may not have any family or friends available to look after the kids while they attend Phoebe's wedding, and they might not relish the stress of trying to keep them under control at a kind-of-boring-for-kids event like a wedding— especially one where the groom's family are pretty well-to-do, and already having a little trouble adjusting to Phoebe's more unconventional lifestyle.
