In Thor 2, Jane Foster absorbs Aether but is not destroyed immediately. In the post credit scene we find that Aether is an infinity stone. In Guardians of the Galaxy, collector explains that only the strongest of the beings can manage it and we see two instances of people getting instantly incinerated upon absorbing/touching the infinity stones. So, what's so special about Jane Foster?
I imagine one explanation could be that it's a different infinity stone and that different infinity stones have different affects on normal people. But I wonder if there's more to it that I missed somewhere?
Note: I also know that it was eventually going to kill her over a few days/weeks by some kind of poisoning, but that's very different than absorbing this infinitely big power/energy and being destroyed because of the inability of human body to contain it (as per the expectations set by the collector).