In How I Met Your Mother, Ted tells his kids the lengthy story of his life during his twenties and thirties. His "official" intention is to tell them, as per the title, how he met their mother.

In the finale however we find out that he really did this (knowingly or not) to ask permission to date their aunt Robin. His wife has been dead for six years and he apparently never really got over Robin, who divorced Barney after three years of marriage.

The ending came as a surprise to many fans and produced some major outrage (*salutes*). It especially seems a bit strange that they spent quite some time on Ted and Robin realizing that they are not a good fit and building up Barney's and Robin's wedding for a whole season, just to rip it all apart within a few minutes.

Originally the show was only meant to run for two or three seasons and was extended again and again due to the great success. This raises the question:

Did the producers have this ending in mind from the get-go?

Did they already know how it would end when they started the show? Did they maybe change the overall story in light of the much longer run-time and the development of characters, or did they make a plan and stick to it?

The fact that all footage of Ted's children had to be recorded during the start of the show, because the actors would have gotten too old over time, seems to imply that the ending was already decided and partially shot during Season 1 or 2.

Is there any statement from the producers about this? Was the footage really recorded in advance? Was it maybe somehow produced through CGI/re-dubbed?

It seems very odd to me that they would stick to an ending they wrote years ago and not take into account the development the characters made onscreen. (e.g. the changed relationship between Ted and Robin, or the emotional development Barney went through)

  • Fun fact: if the show had been cancelled after the first season, Victoria would have been the Mother! Apr 28, 2017 at 22:54

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As this interview (from 2008) with co-creator Craig Thomas reveals:

We've had a plan since the pilot and we actually shot a little piece of it at the beginning of season two, using the kids, because we knew if we waited until the finale of the series, the kids would have aged like six years.

So yeah, part of our plan for how we want to end it all has already been done.

From another source:

... ... [in 2006] Craig Thomas and Carter Bays filmed a scene that will air when "HIMYM" ends for good.

With only the two kids who play Ted’s future children, a cameraman and executive producer/director Pamela Fryman present, they shot a scene that directly relates to the identity of the mother.

That scene will be included in the show’s series finale, which Craig Thomas said he hopes “people will see in 2012.”

We know” who the mother is, Craig Thomas said. “We have a whole plan.”

  • Note: the article is also from 2008, so back then Thomas was apparently hoping for a finale in "2012" (which would have meant 7 seasons).

For clarification

The pre-shot scene with the kids, as seen in the finale:


  • the daughter calls Ted out on how the story is not actually about how he met their mother, but how he is 'totally in love with aunt Robin'

  • the kids 'love aunt Robin'

  • the kids encourage Ted to call Robin and ask her out on a date.
    ('C'mon dad, mom has been gone for 6 years now. It's time.')

So, the mom being dead and Ted going back to Robin seem to be plot points that go back to at least 2006.

However, the DVD set will include an alternate ending.

  • On April 4th co-creater Carter Bays tweeted:

    16 days ago today we were in the HIMYM edit room, trying to decide between two very different endings.


    We only shot one script, but through edit room magic we had two possible outcomes for the series.


    We chose the ending we chose and we stand by it. But we loved the other version too.


    We're going to include that version on the Complete Series DVD as an alternate finale to How I Met Your Mother.

  • To add to this, David Henrie did an interview where he says the knew the whole time. It's here.
    – PiousVenom
    Apr 8, 2014 at 14:53
  • @MyCodeSucks not there.
    – jdunk
    Apr 1, 2017 at 4:07

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