So Marty's parents are supposed to meet after his dad gets hit by his grandpa's car. The mom and dad relive the stories about it.
After Marty time travels he is basically in their faces for a week trying to set them up after he messed up the original meeting (hit by car). I mean he plays guitar at their dance.
So the paradox is... how the hell at Marty's age 13-14 did Lorraine or George not like say... wow how the hell does our kid look EXACTLY like the guy that set us up for a week?