I am trying to identify a movie I saw many years ago. It has a memorable scene with the male lead being trapped in a public toilet. He is rescued by woman that proves to be his estranged cousin. A cousin that used to be male. There is a running theme of the male lead's spectacles being taken off and breathed upon (ready to be cleaned with a handkerchief)
I have obviously not got anything like the correct name (I thought it was something like Guilio Guilia) as my many searches have been fruitless.
I think the movie is Italian. It was probably made in the late 80s. The male lead was an architect. He moves in with his transgender cousin (pre op).