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Jews have a tradition of placing stones on the grave. In the Film Schindler's List, in the ending scene everybody places stones on the grave of Oskar Schindler. But Liam Neeson places a pair of roses on the grave and stands over it. What does this signify?

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In the concentration camp Jews were given a stone (instead of bar of soap) before going in to the "shower." They are gassed instead of getting the shower. Perhaps this the reference to why stones are placed on his grave. – Lindy Oct 3 '13 at 6:22

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According to the movie's FAQ on, Neeson's reason was "for respect and the fact that he was proud to portray such a historical figure."

Also, the scene shows actual Holocaust survivors as well as the actors who played some of them. I believe it is only the survivors, not the actors, who place stones on the grave. So perhaps it would not have been proper for Neeson to place stones on the grave, leading him to use roses instead.

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+1, looks an appropriate answer to me. – Ankit Sharma Sep 28 '13 at 6:30

The previous answer is good, but for a little more detail of the tradition of leaving stones, here's my two cents.

Jewish people leave stones instead of flowers for a variety of reasons, many with Talmudic roots that I'm not educated enough to explain. For a more complete explanation visit Mi Yodeya, the Judaism SE. However, one of the primary reasons is that stones offer permanence and solidity. They are a standing testament and remembrance. Unlike flowers, they don't wither and need to be removed or replaced. They become part of the monument.

Neeson may have felt that both due to his non-Jewish identity and the fact that he is an actor, not a survivor, that it was inappropriate for him to leave a stone and permanently alter the gravesite. Flowers are a good alternative for him to pay his respects in a less invasive way.

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Good example of multiple answer for single question. +1. – Ankit Sharma Mar 12 '14 at 7:16

If you watch the end closely you will notice that both the Schindler Jews and their actor counterparts place stones on the grave. We only see Liam Neeson's forearm and hand as he places the two red roses. I believe Neeson uses roses to show his respect instead of a stone and he knows his portrayal is as temporary as the flowers. Red was used as a connection to the little girl in red who symbolized the innocence and death of the 6,000,000 Jews butchered by the German Nazis.

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The red roses, I think, are supposed to suggest the little girl in the red coat. Much has been discussed, of course, about exactly what the little girl and her coat signify, but whatever that may be, I think the link is obvious.

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According to the accepted answer, the actor, Liam Neeson, gave a different reason. – Meat Trademark Sep 20 at 8:15

Roses are an Anglo Saxon custom. Stones are a Jewish custom meaning I have been here and I have remembered you. Ditto for the Anglo Saxons.

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Do you have supporting internet links for these cultural / religious attributes? – wbogacz Oct 1 at 16:23

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